It was just over a year ago that my trial in New York City was shut down because someone, who was last in the building seven days earlier, had tested positive for COVID19. Three days later, I picked up Elizabeth from school, after a two week pause was announced, and jokingly said, "I hope that this isn't the last day you go to school as a sophomore." In the last year, our lives were turned upside down. Emily finished out her 8th grade taking classes on her laptop. I haven't been inside my office building since November 20th, and before thatI was only in for a few days. I've learned that I hate working from home but I love spending time with my family (thank goodness); as a family, we've learned that we hate missing our sports and activities, but we were able to fill the time with 40 movies (between March and December), which is five times more than we ever watched in a single year. We appreciate all of the small moments; we are grateful for our friends; and we miss our family. We cannot wait to stop wearing masks. And even Lee thinks that social distancing is for the birds.
When I got nervous in February 2020 and made Lee stock up, he thought that I was crazy. Until this happened. For months on end. Now we have a six month supply of toilet paper and cleaning products at all time.
Grateful that my kids grew closer, rather than apart, during this forced time together.
So much lacrosse and soccer in our backyard.
And so much sunbathing.
Last normal interaction we had with my dad, and we all had to wear masks.
To our surprise and delight, the CIAC and the Central Connecticut Conference were able to pull off a post season for high school athletes. The traditional courses and experiences were not meant to be - there were no large races, no class championship games - but it seemed as if the athletes were all just so grateful to be part of one more race, one more game, that it didn't matter.
As the days of November ticked by, and more and more students and teams were required to quarantine due to potential COVID19 exposure, we became increasingly anxious that one or both of our girls would not be able to finish out their season. Every night, when I put the girls to bed, I would say to them "every day is a gift", to remind them that they had completed one more day of normalcy - one more day of in person learning, one more day of seeing friends, one more day of playing the sports they love.
In cross country, the CCC teams competed against their division schools (8 team pods) in dual meets held at the same location over the course of an afternoon. The times were then combined to division champions were crowned. Elizabeth did not run a PR at the championship race, but she did run a PR for that particular course. Her team finished 4th out of 8 teams, which was very good for their program.
Sprinting the home stretch.
On the soccer side, the CCC crowned division champions. NWC finished the regular season at 7-1-1, was the number one team in their division and ended up playing Hall High School, the only team to beat them during the regular season, in the first round of the tournament. Leading up to the Hall game, Emily had several very good practices and earned a spot in the starting lineup for the post season. She played 76 out of 80 minutes as NWC beat Hall 3-1 to advance to the championship game.
If you don't take a bathroom selfie with your best friend, is it really game day?
Announced in the starting lineup.
The national anthem.
Pregame prayer.
This is my favorite play from this game. The girl Emily stripped the ball from is playing D1 next year in college and the give and go is with her best friend. Everything about this play shows how much her confidence has grown.
Post game ritual (especially after Hall) for these freshmen.
On Saturday, November 14th, NWC met Simsbury in the championship game. In two prior meetings during the regular season, they had tied 1-1 and NWC won 2-1 - these were two very evenly matched teams. The result was the most exciting soccer we've ever seen (Lee, who usually sits in a chair during games, stood and paced the entire time). At the end of 80 minutes, the game was tied at 1-1 (and not without drama, as what appeared to be the game winner for NWC was called off 45 seconds after the goal was scored); at the end of two 10 minute overtimes, the game was tied at 2-2. And so the game was decided by penalty kicks. It went down to the last PK, with a senior captain who is the heart and soul of the team and a tremendous mentor to Emily, calmly taking the final shot of the game and winning it for NWC. There wasn't a dry eye at the field that afternoon, as all of the emotions of an uncertain season came pouring out of the players, coaches, parents and anyone else that was close enough to the field to watch. Emily started the final game and played the full 100 minutes, digging down deep to close out the game as the defense held off a relentless Simsbury attack.
Until a few hours before the game, the NWC field was unplayable and so the location of the championship game was up in the air. Ultimately, they were able to play at home.
Announced as a starter in the biggest game of her life. She was nervous, but I was far more nervous - being the parent of a freshman defender is no joke.
Nothing like celebrating a goal.
Overtime huddle - COVID rules out the window, the girls were full on hugging during the team prayer.
PKs. Emily was so thankful it did not go beyond the first five PKs, as she was slated to take the 7th PK.
The game winning PK and ensuing madness.
Champions!
Freshmen varsity BFFs.
Her Sporting besties came to watch and cheer her on.
Between us, Lee and I attended every cross country race and soccer game this season in person - mostly together, but at times we split up so that both girls had a parent cheering them on. We snuck in to more facilities this fall than we've probably snuck into our entire lives, even standing in bushes in the pouring rain to watch one soccer game. It was worth every second because we got to see our girls do what they love and experience a bit of normalcy in what has become anything but a normal time.
On Sunday, Elizabeth played her final lacrosse games of the fall and of 2020. The season ended less than twelve hours before Connecticut banned youth sports from playing in tournaments and from playing teams from out of state due to COVID19. She played three consecutive games at the New England Showcase. The players were required to wear masks and Elizabeth had a very difficult time in the first game with the mask and the 80 degree temps, but she eventually acclimated and had some great plays in the second game and played very well in the third game. As things currently stand, she won't have the opportunity to play lacrosse again until late April 2021, at the earliest, so we are so glad that she was able to get in these last few months of play.
Defending in the first game.
The goalies at the last two tournaments were unbelievable. Rather than watching offensive players for great goals, we watched the goalies all make unbelievable saves. Here, it looks like Elizabeth literally shot into the goalie's net - I can assure you, she took a great shot - but the goalie was incredible and fast. This was one of about 10 saves that materialized out of nowhere during this game.
The girls are settling in nicely at school and it is nice to seem the both return to a little bit of normalcy. They've been able to see their friends outside of school (masks, masks, masks) and being in the classroom everyday has been really great for both them, mentally and intellectually. We are so happy to see them so happy.
